Originally Posted by Jackcarver (Post 20735450)

Hi all, recently got a new gf and we started to fool around in bed, foreplay is good but somehow when about to penetrate, i feel like i lose my erection and can't get hard enough to go in. After that no matter what i won't be able to get hard, even though we do heavy petting and she hj or bj me. Quite embarrassing but lucky she is understanding.

Just the day before sex with new gf i did have sex with my previous fwb and it was ok.

After failed with new gf i went to try a session with my previous previous gf and started to face the same issue, unable to erect when getting into position for sex. Lucky she a bit less tight and she managed to squeeze me in, once inside i have enough stimulation to maintain hardness and able to continue.

I tried masturbating at home also facing this problem, initially can get hard but after a while once i stop simulation will straight away start to soften.

No health issues, don't really eat junk food, active lifestyle with exercise. Not stress with work. Below 30 also. Only thing is getting about 7+ hours of sleep these days and waking up before my alarm because sun too bright, i prefer at least 8 hours but ok la still good enough right? Noticed i don't get morning wood as well these days.

Was thinking see a doctor but wonder if all they will do is give me the blue pill to take before sex? Any good doctor to recommend? Was also considering to go to juagen or some ML therapy from the other forums here. Maybe performance anxiety but i never felt this before and i don't really feel like I'm anxious? Any bros faced this issue or have any advice? Thx in advance.

Originally Posted by sniper968 (Post 21257030)

I got the same problem too. But I'm much older than you.

You can read up about Erectile Dsfunction. ED. Just try and not be so worried about it.

If you get worried, then you stress, and that causes ED.

What I do know is to relax and treat the whole thing as a whole not just focus on the getting hard part and cumming.

Focus on the girl body and the sheer joy of making love to a consenting adult.

You can also experiement with viagra. You can buy it cheap from SGH pharmacy. $12 a box.

Originally Posted by demonhunter (Post 21552798)

You need to find what Triggers your stimulation .

Once you figure that out .... unleash the tiger in you .

no need blue or red pills

:D

Originally Posted by p u r e (Post 21556197)

nothing wrong with the occasional use of meds.

though another thought i wish to bring up here is: even with the longer erection, is the sex more enjoyable?

Originally Posted by sgjoey (Post 21556793)

Drugs such as Viagra do not really prolong your erection. Rather for those with ED, with appropriate stimulation, it allows you to have a firmer erection that will enable one to have sex. Without the use of such meds, many ED sufferers can't get it up even when there is appropriate stimulation.

Originally Posted by fallen11 (Post 21560249)

1st time i tried viagra
after i finished the deed, it kept me erected for another 4h without any stimulation or thinking about sex.
took only half the pill

Originally Posted by sgjoey (Post 21561136)

That could be dangerous. It is an abnormal reaction.. Does it still happen? Do you have ED in the first place?