How you spice up your sex with wife?
 

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yea...ones must try to keep the spice of life (sex) up in a r/s..its one impt part of r/s or marriage!!!

as mentioned, one of many ideas is to get out of your boundary, be it environment, emotional or believes etc.

I know some couples might think its sex should be only shared among themselves..yes, it is very true..but then whats the boundary?...can it be share with another couple? hhaah maybe watching each other? any other ideas to explore?....

The idea is to break out from your norm, and try to explore your fantasies....if it happens ..then it really bring a new prospective view to your sex life!!!...and of course managing it properly it will enhance your r/s and sex life..and you will never feel bored it again!!!

do it step by step, try to convince your partner that it will do good to the r/s and of course it must be true...not lying to her/him that you only want to fuck others and not let her have the fun and also both must know the limits and not get jealous over it. --- basically trust and understanding and appreciation of each other.

so good luck bros....with some imagination ,effort and patience..i am sure you can do it too....

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Outdoor sex in some ulu place or oversea

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Make a short trip to Bali, Bangkok or Phuket once in 3 months. Enjoy the trip as much as you can, definitely she feel so much in love. :)

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What if cases like, husband & wife have not been doing it for years?

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The only time men need to have sex with their wives is when they want to make a baby. Otherwise, don't bother. It's not worth the trouble.

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I do agreed with what Sam said and in real life, I do have friends whose wife told them off straight and no sex after babies quota met

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Dun quite agree. I think the number of times a couple engages in sex is proportionate to the closeness of the relationship.

When a couple drifts apart, they find it difficult to have sex. As human beings who need to release, they then have their own sex life (outside) because they can't get from each other, even more no need for sex.

An effort to spice things up for sex shows that both are still interested in each other, I mean at least until menopause la. After menopause, both can sit at rocking chair and thats closeness liao.

I think sex is pretty important for couples in relationship, married or not. Whether closeness takes precedent or sex takes precendent, both sex and closeness compliment each other.

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You probably have to give some examples on how you spice up your marriage life la, you definitely have more stories to share, right?

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So sad to hear this. :eek: :D

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Nice to know such a thread.

However, I've a problem, which is my small bro. can't eject out when doing with wife. But doing it with others - no problem. To solve this problem, most times, I have to HJ it to come out. Note that my wife HJ my bro., also cannot cum.

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Wah this is sweet. A few of my friends, including myself, also like to visit old haunts with our love ones, some even went all the way back to aust to re-visit places in their 'best days'. For me, it would be at the regular steamboat place where we always have supper and the lone stretch of road where we used to stay.

I wonder how long have you been married bro?

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Maybe u wan2 buy some sexy and kinky lingeries for her :D

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I got this problem 1 out of every 10 times also. But we learn to like it later when I start to talk dirty to my gf to maintain the momentum and suprisingly, she responded rather well. Sometimes when I know that I couldn't cum, I'll ask her if she like it if I ejaculate over her body and (talking dirty) ask if she likes to HJ me and see me cum. Got once she took the dick and bj me till I come. I've no problem with that eversince.

The thing is, when you change style to HJ, it will become quite awkward becos you tend to become deflated over your 'problem' and unconsciously she konws she got to satisfy you and has to avoid directing at the 'problem' at the same time. The result is, an uneasy silence where she masturbate you in your own self-consciousness. This way, very difficult to even get hard.

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Always try something simple ; different ; and with sincerety with a romantic atmosphere will always make her happy.

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Here's something to spice up your sex life....
buy chili and rub it all over your dick... then you're gonna have a night of very 'hot' sex. *

Like brothers here say... use your imagination... you can try your kitchen for once.. hhhe

*don't try that at home...

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5 Spice powder works wonders

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Errr... how does it work? :D:D

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Dun tell me it's part of the Colonel's 11 secret recipes :D

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For me, sex with the OC was in the doldrums from day one. Then I decided to go bonk some sweets FLs, got the didi interested again and thus far me and OC have been touchy-feely and getting naked everytime we are in bed. Have been talking dirty to her, say I want to eat her sweet wet pussy. :p Who's to say visiting FLs can't spice up ones marriage eh? :D

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I think the mose effective way like some bros already said is to bring her away for a short holiday. Just the two of you.

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Haha,
That would be a lower altitude version of the Mile High Club.

For me, I make up stories and whisper to her during lovemaking. Very much of a verbal roleplay. Put her in place of a slut character or a helpless and sexually deprived housewife whose hubby travels often. Or a one-night-stand kinda of scenario.

No prizes for guessing where I get my ideas from.

There was also plenty of times when I roused her from her sleep and when she discovered I'm naked and wanting to bonk her, she also got excited.

Once she awoke to find me stripping her T-shirt and shorts off...and slipping a sexy red and lacy chemise I bought over her. And then the rest was sexstory.:D

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Hi Bro stmapede,

Below are some suggestions and things i do to spice things up though :D

Step1
Help her with the daily chores. Take out the trash, fold the laundry, empty the dishwasher and cook her dinner regularly. Relieving her of mundane chores will leave her with more energy to romp in the bedroom with you...hehe

Step2
Get a babysitter for the kids more often. If you have kids, it's probably difficult to find time to be alone with your wife. Getting the kids out of the house a little more than usual will give your wife time to relax and feel less like a mom and more like a sexy wife.

Step3
Make her feel desirable by telling her that she's beautiful, sexy and irresistible and by frequently showing her affection.

Step4
Take her lingerie shopping. Help her pick out some pieces that make her feel fabulous and sexy. Giving her some special jewelry or her favorite perfume to wear will also help her to feel more attractive and sensual.

Step5
Break up the old routine. Too often couples sink into the same sexual routine. Take her by surprise and kiss her when she's least expecting it or be spontaneous by having sex in different rooms of the house and in different positions.

Step6
Satisfy her every desire. Ask your wife what her sexual fantasies are, and make them come true. Encourage her to be honest with you so that you can really get to the bottom of her sexual desires.

Step7
Surprise her by taking her on a romantic vacation or by setting up a romantic dinner at home or out on the town. Taking time to plan special, romantic evenings or trips for your wife will not only make her feel loved, it may just put her in the mood.

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No problem bro.. welcome :D

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Ithink if you marry more than 20 years... it is going to be very challenging to spice up the sex life with your wify.... Maybe getting a SYT will do your good.

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Bro Floyd... it's the wife we talking about.. SYT can be side dish :D

Wifey is a lifetime partner leh tio bo? that one cannot change la :)