Does a man really love someone who has worked in a spa?
 

I may be working in a spa. I do not have a boyfriend yet.
If somehow, after working in a spa, and a man confessed that he is in love with me, and assuming he is really nice and kind to me,
but deep inside, i knew, the future will not be bright, shall i turn him away? But, what if he keeps on booking me at my place of work?
can i reject his booking?

Re: Does a man really love someone who has worked in a spa?
 

Yes you should reject his booking.

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If you don't like him, then you can just reject him, if not you can just be normal friends with him to see how things goes.

Na, it is just depends on individual view with life. Regardless of one profession, as long you never go cheat, rob or steal money from anyone. Just making a lawful honest living, nobody should/be looking down on you, same goes to prostitution.

As long the spa you are working in doesn't provide "extra service", I don't see any issue with it.

http://buddhism.about.com/od/theeigh...livelihood.htm

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It is possible, I'm one of them

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But, will my management allow me to reject a customer's booking.
He can use another name to book me. I will not know it is him until he showed up. Surely, my management will not allow me to reject him or they may penalise me for the booking fee.

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Unless you are saying he is those old tiko pek kind that will be harassing you with bad intentions, if not I don't see a reason why to avoid him. Besides, this kind of job which one on one meeting with the opposite gender make spark out some relationship or something. I would say it is part of the job, but you have to learn to control yourself. Hopefully the customers will know how to draw lines with you and respect you.

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Sis, I have visited a PRC masseuse lady 7 times for massage + HJ last year. Deep in my heart I knew we cannot be together in real life for marriage due to her profession. We even discussed about us being bf and gf together in real life. But it did not go through due to my own problem.

She also told me before she never had any customer falling for her with me being the first one. Even her ex-bf don't even know she worked at this line. Then I decided not to visit her for the 8th time and change a new hp number. It takes me 6 months to forget her and now back to normal life again.

Now as this is affecting u as a spa girl, you can try to give excuse like you no more work there, you quit this line, or change your hp number. If he continue to book you again you can get a new hp number and change to a new working place or find a new job at other field.

Re: Does a man really love someone who has worked in a spa?
 

Hi Mr. JNUDES,
Thank you for your reply.
I have not started working in a spa or health centre yet.
I asked for some advice in the Health Centre section too.
I am doing some groundwork before making a decision.
Once, I had a sugar daddy too.
You can read more about me in the "Orgies/Sugar Daddies" section.
I am only writing Chap 1 now.

Once again, thank you for replying.

Re: Does a man really love someone who has worked in a spa?
 

work spa management, not a masseuse,
veri tired . after a session.

Re: Does a man really love someone who has worked in a spa?
 

Tracy96 if you work in spa can pm me which spa? I would like to make a booking.

Re: Does a man really love someone who has worked in a spa?
 

The next time u see him .... ask him for a loan of 20 k .

father and mother very sick .. recently rain a lot , vege cannot grow etc .

:D

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Haha... you must have visited too many prc or vietnamese hoes. :p

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Fully agree with you as long you are honest with your feelings with him.WHY NOT.

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TS, it is you who decide what you want to do. Good customer hard to come by. Many people who visit you and say love you, miss you are mostly emotional and many time come with string attached.

Certainly you cannot stop people from booking you even you don't wish to as it you decided to take up the job and I guess it is not professional that you keep rejecting the customer. No SPA owner will like to see their business get rejected by you.

What make you think that you want to go into this trade, it there any other job that will keep you survive or you have consider some fast money in this trade. Do you require formal training to do a decent job.

Be it what you do, take care.

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I think you should reject

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Yes it is possible. It's even possible for a men to fall in love with a prostitues who fuck 5-6 people every day. I have seen it before and infact that guy was trying to borrow money to bail her out and wanted to marry her. I don't know the ending but it is possible. For me I think it is also possible.

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Love conquers all.

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I totally agree with you. Love is a really powerful poison.

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Thanks everyone &

Merry Christmas.


Dear ah piao,
thanks very much for standing up to protect me.

Merry Christmas.

Re: Does a man really love someone who has worked in a spa?
 

Merry Xmas!

I've not visited a FL or spa for years!! (Like 4-5) but if u do, I dun mind support u and can perhaps share some massage techniques...

But if u can find a SD who can support u without having multiple partners, I think it's safer than doing FL or working in a spa,

Coz I dun think spa mgt will allow u to reject customers even if he is covered in warts and all...

Same for ur high end $1000 a pop, customers from your "bosses" in your "My Life Story" thread. Might be good source for deep pocketed SD.... but long term risky.

But yes It is possible for customer to fall in love with ML...

Re: Does a man really love someone who has worked in a spa?
 

Hi Bros,

To love or not to love someone is something that you cannot easily control. At times, follow your instincts and your feelings; so long there is no malicious intent. Can you stop him/her from loving you or vice versa? Is there a right or wrong to this kind of relationship? Who knows what tomorrow will bring.

My 5 cents opinion.

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Talk to your managemENT. Reject him if you do not feel comfortable.

If you likes him, talk to him. I have friends marrying Fls and results varry. Some ends up a fairytale and some ends up like a nightmare.

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Most of the time are nightmares.

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it is up to you on how you feel about him and whether is he is sincere towards you as i believe a lot of guys have say to you that he love you. just be careful.