Tired of paid sex
 

What happened to me? I am getting tired of paid sex.

I feel empty after their services and felt no connection to them.

Is there one i still can call up to go for a simple drink, to chat be naughty?
A someone that i can care for

Maybe they call this girlfriend feel. but then the feel only lasted for as long as your session last.

I do feel horny and high when I first step into the room. but leave being lonely and empty inside.

Do you guys experience this way???

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Time to settle down, find a nice girl and marry. Have meaningful sex.

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whats so great about settling down, eventually u will grow sick of her also
before marriage and after marriage is a totally different scenario
lolxxx......

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Yea, I get those episodes like the TS mentioned sometimes.

But after getting to know some real life women, somehow, I just end up going back to FLs lol

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yes, feel the same way
that's why nowadays never go to Geylang
practically no sex life, except DIY:o

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After my 1st visit to GL 10+ years ago, know that I can't cum with short time. Too rush to build up the feel. Even after 'starving' myself for a whole week, same thing. No matter how good their service are. Basically just visit there with kakis nowadays.

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its like going there paying them and not really enjoy.
Sometimes, i just feel paying them to talk to me instead of sex.
but in the end, i know its $$$ they are after, when the time is up, i dun think they even remember who you are the moment you left the room

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Try some variety e.g. Health Centre/Spa, Online FLs, Street Walkers, PUBs, KTVs.
The different modes of chionging does help to add some spice back to ur regular routine :)

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been there done that ......
at the end of the day, the feeling of bored and emptiness stills there.
gotten some numbers and tried to start a SMS chat with them.
but non worked out, after a few lines, the conversation cannot continue anymore.

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Could be that you're missing the girlfriend feeling / lonesome feeling . Try going to Thailand / Indonesia / Philippine for a 3 day 2 nite trip & book the girl LT / over nite . Very important is to book the gal that you can communiacate with . Maybe this could help for the time being . Am sure you can find some of our SBF brudders organizing trips to various destinations & guess they would not mind you tag along . Drop them a pm . My 2 rupiah / bath / peso worth .

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Yes !!! i think i am missing the girlfriend feel.
but to book them, in the end when come back singapore, isn't it going to be worse? leaving behind the happy moments of 3 days

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I think it's time to go fl dome and Bao yang a local Sg syt. Sure got feel de

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don't worry, just do it and try.
I tried, come back sing, do miss that GFE:cool:, that's y plan more trip go c c her lo:p... life live with no regret... LOL :D

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Not surprising, paying for sex just gets dull and you soon regret it when you realize you could be spending all that money on something more meaningful like a nice dinner or present for a gf. May sound harsh and all but thats just my opinion

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later kana pok by boss
lolxxxxxx

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Yeah, u shd channel your energy to somewhere else. Maybe u can find your sweetheart there. Good luck! :D

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or maybe i should get myself involve with a FB....

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Bro, you are not alone. Used to chiong geylang like crazy, now also sian already, its like you are feeling physically fulfilled but emotionally. nowadays unless i really got need then i go malaysia spa to relax and maybe have a good bonk, if not, your right hand is your best friend.

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been trying the Wechat thingy that you had recommended .....
not bad not bad. but then, seems like its flooded with PRC and sex for money ladies..... this world is going mad

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U know what u want in the first place or not?
If u want just sex only then go geylang or fl...
If u want a date or someone to talk to..get urself a date la
If u want a date and a free fuck...find a lady that is comfortable to provide u that..

Nb...there is nothing in this world that comes free...you want something put in the effort to get it instead of fucking complaining here..
Seems to me u are looking for a fb...if u r looking for one pls post it in the what orgies forum lor.

This is not aunt agony forum.

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Maybe a good idea.

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You think too much. It's just sex. If you can afford not to go, don't then - so you won't feel that empty. Just my two cents :)

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I suggest TS to do a calculation..measure your need for sex and/or emotional comfort in terms of money needed. with the so-called equal rights this world is run by money measuring by money is the to-date most accurate measuring tool.

if its jus sex, go for paid sex becos you wouldn't want unnecessary trouble which may tag along with FB/married women etc. not worth it for jus sex. then you calculate how many times you need and what paid sex quality you are willing to settle for. eg. once a month $300 including hotel and cap. then you get an annual fee of $3600 for once a month desired quality sex.

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then you can compare the above with having a wife/gf. if you have a wife/gf, sex is NOT guaranteed and along with sex comes emotional concerns and monetary concerns. hdb and allowance are just two of them. if divorce, lagi worse cos you may be paying monthly fee with no sex AT ALL. if wife begin to starve you after first few months/years of great sex, you may get worse than once a month like the above. last but not least, the thing about having a wife/gf is...the price is ????. aka you don't know how much you need to pay until the day your wife leaves you.

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if you are bored of paid sex, think of something fresh to spice things up. for me, I will pay for someone whom I may never have the chance at under normal circumstances. eg. girl taller than me or girl much younger than me or older than me. many more examples. with paid sex, you can also ask for acts girls under non-paid circumstances will never allow you. it can be as simple as bbbj cos some girls considered it dirty no matter how many times we scrub. paid sex has no emotional baggage. it's only differentiated by service quality and how the girl looks.

if you want girls to offer emotional comfort, you must be prepared to offer the same. paid sex is emotionless for the worse. we're here for the service and they are here for the money. it's pure transaction.

in summary, paid is more calculated than wife/gf.

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I also feel empty after leaving.. especially my wallet.. :p

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You can also get tired of having an FB.

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do u tink after marriage will get mesningful sex? i doubt so. Dere is oso no free lunch in dis world. Everythg comes w a price.