Is visiting prostitutes a sin?
 

hi guys, juz a curious thread. firstly, juz vote based on your most honest sentiments and how you personally feel abt this. however, u may choose to discuss tis after voting based on religious doctrines and how others u know view tis. juz dun go around flaming other religions. thks.

Re: Is visiting prostitutes a sin?
 

no, because i'm free thinker....

moreover, its just one's needs....

i no wife, no gf....

so never let anyone down..........:)

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No I dun think it's a sin. They are providing a service, and I paid them for their services. I treat them as a frd when I'm bonking them. Tried my best to be nice to them. :)

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if you are single, i don't think there's anything wrong. just got to be safe though. :rolleyes:

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Please do not bring in 'religion' to discuss sex. Prostitutes are just workers in the sex line, doing business, just like any other shops selling any items. If the demand is there, the supply will have to meet the demand. It is purely a business deal, if emotions are involved, it'll becomes a little complicated and followed by BG r/s. So is going into a shop to buy something a sin or not, please ponder.....:rolleyes:

Why some people think that it is a sin, morality comes into the picture.
Married and with a happy family, enjoyable sex life, then visiting prostitute, FB, FL, or even extramarital affairs will cause a sense of guilt leading to sinfulness.

Is it a sin or not a sin?:)

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Haiyah if u have religion it is..than again better than you rape someone right?

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Well,

Depend on what you believe in I guess.

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If the prostitute is forced into the line, how? I believe they have no choice but to work in that line...so ya..up to ppl to think

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Prostitution is one of the oldest profession, as long as eat finish wipe mouth :D

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As long as nobody is hurt, I think it is ok. Even uk footballers do it nowadays!

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the thing is everytime i go pray, i feel q remorseful. its like i feel im a hypocrite, though i didnt pray to atone my 'sins'. its q an internal struggle to me sometimes, coz i feel im single and didnt let anyone down, however if i rly tink im 'morally upright', den i would have confessed such activities to the ppl i know which i didnt. That means somewhere deep down in me, i know its still not 'morally correct'? haiz sian...

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Visiting a prostitute or letting your inner beast gets the better of you if there is no prostitute and aiming innocent girls,I think former is definitely the much lesser of the 2 evils.

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tt means its still evil? I dunno man lol, im not a devout man, but still wif a religion. or perhaps those that voted no are free-thinkers?? anyone wif a religion voted no?

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If I have a girlfriend/wife, I won't visit prostitute. But I dun have, so it's either visit them or aim innocent girls. I'm not that proud of it to tell everybody, but I dun want to be 40 year old virgin!

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well depends how u look at it, if they do have a choice think they will chose this line?

well if visiting prosituties are a sin, what abt rape? if not for them who to provide a mean for us to relase our urge? Of cos u wont wana go ard raping other woman right?

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If a society wants a high crime rate of rapes, they can outlaw this trade. This is the most basic of any animals, to repoduce.

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Im not exactly free thinker but also not totally "religious-less".. as in I still go temple and pray etc.. but to me I would say visiting prostitutes isn't a sin.

If visiting prostitutes is a sin then I could easily also say that surfing pornography and PCCing is also a sin..

If you have a family or a girlfriend then of course it is a different story

But most of my friends think otherwise of course...

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Sin only exists in religion.
If you're an atheist, you do not believe in a divine power, religion doesn't enter the equation.
Therefore it isn't a sin.

However if you are religious, there's no debate. Unless your religious beliefs are part time?

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I don't think sex itself is a sin, we humans have animalistic brains. animals do it, we do it.

You feel guilt because probably it's due to the restrictions imposed upon you by your religion. Like the bro above said, if you're an atheist, then it doesn't enter the equation.

Re: Is visiting prostitutes a sin?
 

coming SBF got sin bo ? LOL :D

Re: Is visiting prostitutes a sin?
 

sian lor zzz...how to have a religion and still indulge in such activites lol? any bros here can advise. coz i dun see myself giving up either, at least for now...

Re: Is visiting prostitutes a sin?
 

Prostitutes are not sin but patronising their services is!

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Bro,
It is not a sin and we are saints......:D:D

Cheers.

Re: Is visiting prostitutes a sin?
 

it depends on what your religion is... christians and islamists are usually more bothered by this vice as compared to buddhists/taoists/etc..

either way, its all about making your own choices, if you feel bad visiting a prostitute because of your religion no one can really help you except yourself

Re: Is visiting prostitutes a sin?
 

we are given a sex organ. it meant to have sex.. so there is mean why is it a sin? is a sin not to use it.... :D

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it is not sin but a responsibility to your partner thus pls be safe and use condom...

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Whether its a sin or not depends on whether you have the intention to cause harm or if the act actually harms someone directly or indirectly. In my humble opinion; if you bring STD home and infect others, then you've sinned. If you patronized a prostitute forced either by criminal force or circumstances into receiving clients then you've sinned. If you visited the prostitute with the intention of abusing her/him then you've sinned. If the visitation causes your partner/family to be hurt emotionally/financially then you've sinned.

Hence prostitution is usually deemed sinful because all and more than the above mentioned situations are frequently encountered. However in its defense I think its like any other trade. Also it's existence provides a physical & emotional outlet for excess sexual energies/tensions. Civilization can only do so much to temper the beasts within ourselves. It's a constant struggle against lust and I salute those with enough will to muster and subdue their primal urges.

For myself I try my best at protecting myself and the WL both physically and emotionally- always using condoms. Taking regular checkups helps much and during times when I have a partner I'll abstain. As a cheongster I keep a low profile and play alone, I've set in place rules that include 1)no more RTF on signs of KC 2)no local FLs 3)never reveal my real name 4)cheong on my own terms and needs 5)do not exceed the budget 6)if the girl is suspicious eg bad smell, has red spots, looks too young, looks abused etc reject on the spot.7)stay sober when cheonging.

Mitigate the risks and you'll realize that prostitution is in fact cleaner, more efficient and less damaging than going for ONS.

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It really depends whether you are a believer in a religion or not. For me, it is a job, although a non-conventional one. That being said, anyone who visits prostitutes and FLs still have to have morals; no abusing them etc. :)

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It depends on the purpose of the visit, no?