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I wonder which firm he work for... I have friends who are poperty consultants and real-estate agents leh. Their monthly get 8k-12k also neber get "Top". How come this guy get 1/2 of what they earn can get "Top" already?

Unless it is "Top" Bullshit Artist?

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he is the 'Top' in selling paper estates.

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jchongking TOP himself...!

Bro, please understand him, he was cheated big time in Zhuhai many, many years ago, when making 5K was top in property market...He has since gone insane and calling all PRC as chicken...

BTW, He work for a property firm called "Merlion Property and Associates", some say its the best along singapore river and the shores of Zhuhai...

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2 options:

-endures it. give yrself some time and u shall live it through and get over her. u just need that bit of time to adjust to yr new life without her.

-find a replacement,a new relationship, but not WL ok! this is the option more ppl practise but also more ended up having more sorrows than b4 i.e u expect the replacement to be like yr ex which would often lead to conflicts and quarrels in the new relationship.

Your choice bro.

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Thanks guys for all ur help. I'm still reeling in the pain. Sometimes i will find myself laughing and at times i will be crying like nobody business. She took everything i had from my life and now i'm left a bankrupt. recently, she threatened me to loan her money if not she will be someone else woman. It really pains me when she say that, after i had done so many things for her. it feels like someone stab me straight at my heart, giving me no chance to breathe at all. i know she is no more fit to be my wife. it's just that i do not want her to end up with someone undesirable. who only uses her. it's really painful... :(

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Bro for this type of girl... who has caused you so much pain and does not care for your pain?? You feel pain because she wants to shack up with someone bad??? Please lah... let her go lah... Who she wanna be with is her problem liao lah... Let you heart harden and the love die... It is because you do not want to let go and she is using that as a weapon... When you are well and truly bankrupt... or when the loan sharks start to paint your doorstep.. will she come and clean? If the answer is no and if she does not love you anymore... why you bother? A friend once told me... the cold hard truth from a friend will be hard to hear... Well, though I am not your friend.. but in this forum we are all brothers... so the cold hard truth is that she does not love you and you have to let go... Do not dig yourself a deeper hole... do not dwell in the past... wake up tomorrow and say that it is the first day of your new life... No matter how painful it was the day before... tomorrow will be the day you start you recovery... Tomorrow will be the day the new you will come out...

Like I mentioned... in any relationship it is a compromise... If you give.. what can she give? Now that she has shown you the true colours... why bother anymore? Live your new life... enjoy your new freedom... the pain and the shackles are all in your heart. Use your mind to think it through.

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Thats not your problem anymore, Bro

Dont cling on it anymore or else you cant move forward

Just dont try to do anything silly

Pick up your life piece by piece and you be fine

You can do it...

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Hmmm..... interesting. How much does she want? If price is right, and if she looks good, maybe I can offer to bao her. You can PM me her number later.

Before anyone flame me for these comments, my question to TS is this; when you first read my comments above, what were your thoughts and feeling? Shitty right? It made her sound like a prostitute doesn't it?

You are damned right it does because anyone who is willing to fuck someone else for money is by definition a prostitute.

The Boss will say you are out of your freaking mind if you want to marry a whore. Count your blessing that you are not together anymore. Can you imagine if you are married and she said these words to you? You might end up becoming her mafu.

Who she fucks is now not your problem.

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Bro, godzilla007,

Godzilla is powerful with an aquatic origin and 007 always "shaken, not stirred"

Think about it......Move on...

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I am afraid for you, because now that you are going to give up on her, This is going to be the beginning of your heartache. More is likely to come. One day, she may be coming back to you with all the promises that she will change, and has changed for the better, and that this happens when you are on your way to heal your hurt.

What's next for you? Believe her and get hurt again? Don't believe her and never know if she has really changed?

You will need to figure all this out. :(

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For what she said, its clear you live in a HOPEFUL dream.
All you ever did was pay rent for her services rendered.
She was never there for love but for money.
Do not harness anymore hope
Actually what she did was a blessing for you to see her true colours
If i were you, i'll just say...ok lor bye!!!!!
Dun worry bro, heart pain temporary only......
Better now than later.......
Let her go or she'll bleed u dry!

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Bro understand how you feel, Initially i feel the same way just ended one
Worrying she will be worst off, not able to take care of themselves, can they survive, make enough $, medical problem what F problem i also worry

But the truth is they are damn good survivors, to them we are just passing clouds

(Like or love her let her go, if others can take care of them and they are happy, we should be happy for them) This phrase usally applies to NON WL / FL but at times it can applies

Just move on as time pass, her image will disppear from your mind:)

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It is always the same thing... What you have is always the best in your mind till you find another one..... then you think she is the better one....

Grow up by learning to let go in the first place.....

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bro frm yr 1st post its already clear this woman has no regards 4 u watsover, since she can openly date other guy, without fear of your discovery or confrontation etc. no matter hw much $$ u pour onto her, if her heart isnt yours she will only be touched by your dollar notes, not you. its gd if u can have a clean break with her nw, stop looking back, pick yrself up and look for someone deserving of your love. wat u need is just abit of time and courage to let it go, u can do it bro.:)

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Bro. People said.. Unless u saw it with your own eyes.. If not u think I though then who is going to confirm!!! If wat yr friend said is true.. Life still got to move on.. No matter how painful it is time is the medicine for everything to heals everything. Make yourself busy... Trust me.. I had this kind of fxxking exprience before.. It like u lose everything. U r by alone. Got sbf bro here and fl here to bonk. Cheer up bro. Life must move on..