Re: Dumped because you are poor
 

Hi bro,
so true.

Cheers.

Re: Dumped because you are poor
 

No feasible solution in this thread, looks like. :D

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I think nowadays earning power is kind of different....don't think that 80k a year is really the top 30% and will get you a lot of girls, maybe website use for comparison is outdated...coz my gf is earning around 350k per annum and she told me there are a lot earning much more than her.....:D:D:D

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Agreed, but many pretty wife also sitting at home (because the hubby dun want to let her go out work - less contact with other men), the hubby eat outside like no bloody bodies business.

Then those with not so good looking wife (ugly-if you may), dun dare bring wife out for social gatherings, end up wearing a Green Beret.

This is up to individual, how you cum out of your relationship and situation.

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I alway think God is fair, do a good deed and one day god will reward you. Ya, true, many girls are out to hunt for their material. But if you are true to them, god will see it eventually... pray hard for the right one to come as early as possible ba.

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Hmmm sometimes fate do plays a part too ;)

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I don't know where you got that figure. But based on iras figures, 80k per annum is around top 30%

Re: Dumped because you are poor
 

Agree wholeheartedly.

Does fate has expiry date so to speak? :D

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Just read this article would like to share with you all but in Chinese. In summary, yes woman will still be with you even you are poor, as long aa you are worthy. I consider myself lucky to meet three such woman.

永远别低估女人陪你同甘共苦的决心，只要你值！


　　一位男性读者在后台给我留言：你的文章《穷太久就是你的错》几乎刷爆了朋友圈，很多女人赞同得不能再赞 同，突然感觉很绝望，好像这个世界上肯陪男人奋斗的女人已经绝迹了，每个女人都要求男人有房有车，难道在这 之前男人只能一个人孤独地打拼吗?

　　我想了想，只回复了一句话：永远别低估女人陪你同甘共苦的决心，只要你值!

　　一

　　这个世界上愿意陪男人奋斗的女人少吗?就我所看到的现象，不但不少，反而多不胜数。只是很多女人看到那 些陪男人奋斗十几年，最后却落得人财两空、心碎神伤的可怜人，于是，畏惧了付出的脚步，害怕落得同样下场， 但若你真是值得她付出的男人，让她感受到了你的努力和过硬的人品，她依然会义无反顾地陪你同甘 共苦。

　　当然，这个世界上确实有出卖尊严和感情换取富贵的女人，但你想娶的是这一部分女人吗?而且我相信，大部 分姑娘想找的还是一个知冷知热的伴侣。

　　三毛与荷西有一段著名的对话，荷西问三毛：你想嫁一个什么样的男人?三毛想了想说：要是中意的话，千万 富翁也可以嫁，要是不中意的话，亿万富翁也可以嫁。荷西说：说来说去，就是想嫁个有钱人喽?三毛说：但如果 是你的话，只需一日三餐，并且以后还可以吃得再少一点。

　　女人其实是非常感性的，也许她曾经幻想过要嫁入豪门，也幻想过要找个帅哥共度一生。后来某一天，她遇到 的男人既不富裕也不够帅，可是却让她感受到了无与伦比的诚意与爱意，她会忘记自己曾经设置的条条框框，义无 反顾地爱上这个男人。

　　二

　　前几天，我和阿彦去一家排挡吃宵夜，排挡不大，甚至有点寒酸，但是味道特别好，光顾的人非常多。经营排 挡的是一对外地来的夫妻，丈夫掌厨，妻子端送。

　　我们刚刚开吃，就听见一声惊叫，回头一看，是一位客人转身拿碗不小心撞到了端汤过来的女店主，刚刚起锅 的汤滚烫滚烫的，女店主手里立刻起了一排燎泡，男店主立刻放下勺过来察看：“怎么了烫到哪里了 ?”

　　女店主使劲把手缩了回来：“没什么，就一点点，你去烧菜吧，客人都等着呢!”



　　男店主却满眼都是心疼，转过身来对我们说：“不好意思，今天我媳妇烫伤了，我得带她去医院，今天晚上就 不做生意了，实在对不起大家，今晚就不收钱了，不好意思啊!”

　　女店主想阻止丈夫：“哎，我不严重，自己擦点药膏就行了，你还是招呼客人吧!”

　　但男店主坚决要带她去医院，大家也纷纷理解地起身。

　　我和阿彦散步回去，看见他们在路口拦车，不由驻足了一会。

　　女店主心疼地说：“我真的不要紧，你非得提前关门，我们今天少赚了一两百块呢!”

　　男店主用不容置疑的语气说：“少赚一千块，我也得带你来医院，你看你的手已经这么红了，不知道明天会不 会脱皮，你嫁给我这么久，没让你过上好日子，还让你遭罪，真的觉得很对不起你。”

　　女店主嗔怪道：“你对我还不够好啊?有什么好吃好穿的都先紧着我。”

　　男店主叹道：“本来你完全可以嫁给比我更有钱的男人，这样也不用起早摸黑地跟着我出来了。 ”

　　“傻瓜，夫妻俩还说这种话。”

　　我突然觉得眼眶湿湿的。

　　回去的路上，我对阿彦说，如果我是那个女店主，丈夫如此疼惜我，就算每天陪他粗茶淡饭，我 也愿意。

　　阿彦逗我：“那就没有你喜欢的翡翠，也没有你喜欢的宝石了，你还愿意?”

　　我重重地点头：“我还是愿意，那些东西可以不要。”

　　永远别低估女人陪你同甘共苦的决心，只要你值!

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赞! 难得, 难得!

Re: Dumped because you are poor
 

To be fair, there's some women who will dump u bcos u r poor. There's also some ungrateful guy who will desert his wife when he becomes rich, completely forget his wife accompany him during his darkest period, dun mind suffer with him, help him to build up his career or business from scratch. When he becomes a rich boss, he feels his wife is old liao (Ren Lao zhu Huang), starting to look for younger, tender fresh.

Most of the time, it's what type of woman am we looking for. If u already know that she is that type of vain, high maintenance woman, yet bcos of her attractive appearance, u start to lose ur sense, fall head to heel over her, willing to splurge lots of money on her even through u r juz an average income guy, even go to the extent of sign credit line, borrow loans to satisfy her lavish lifestyle, who am u to blame??!!

Not all women will look for richer guy to settle down. As he maybe very rich, but he is very stingy towards u, yet very generous towards other women. Most of the time, it's the heart that count the most. Like the man in this story, to him, his first priority is his wife safety, he is willing to lose some profits by closing his stall, hurriedly send his wife to visit doctor. This is the heart & caring he show to his wife that money can't be bought, so priceless & precious to his wife.....its his heart & virtue that she find it precious than any diamond in this world. In return of his love, she also express her gratitude & love towards him.

Tks bro for sharing this story, really gan chu liang duo:rolleyes:;)

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This sums it all, bro. Tks.

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Yes n no.
Yes when both goin thru divorce.
No when u r still searching for ur right one.

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Everything in life has its expiry date, starting with ur own life. ;)

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Bro is very true. These kind of woman stiill existed. I have a life example in my life, too bad isnt my gf/wife.