Re: Cheated
 

This is my personal experience, but there was a period of time when I was really trying hard to get back on my own 2 feet and was working in Thailand. When I called my local ex, she did not answer and was evasive. When I came back, I knew something was wrong. In the end, she admitted that she was seeing another guy because he was her first love and she just couldn't get over him. I let her go lor. My reasoning is that I wanted her to be happy. I loved her desperately. But if you love someone, you want her to be happy. So I let her go. To date the guy and to find out. If she really was meant to be mine... she would come back. She did come back.. but then after some more trials and tribulations, she decided that enough was enough and she called it quits. Bite me once, I will be careful. Bite me again, then you better not waste your time trying again. The first few years after we broke off, she kept telling me how sorry she was... how lonely and so on and though it broke my heart... I kept it cold as ice. And in the end, she has grown to be a very mature and nice lady who I still keep in contact with.

So the future is up to you Bro TS. How you make it is also up to you. But one thing is, be ready to call it quits because sometimes, just ending it will make a painful future more endurable.

Re: Cheated
 

So gracious of you to apologise, to my 'idol'..........:D:D

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TS, I think you should read bro DYBJ's signature.

是你的，就是你的。不是你的，不要抢！



Do I smell a below-the-belt punch here? :p

Re: Cheated
 

ppl top property consultant wor, zhuhai SYT and MILF most favourite chiongster, really gt alot to learn frm him.:D:rolleyes:

jchongking when's yr next trip to zhuhai? can take some pics of yr zhuhai beauties and share with us not?

Re: Cheated
 

either u have overspoilt her bro or u r simply nt the type of guy she really fancy. maybe to u, yes, she is the type of girl u really love and all ready to commit and marriage and stuffs but r u sure she thinks the same? its better 4 u to find out how much u stand in her heart 1st b4 all the wedding and HDB thingy.

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STPB did sue him but since he only make 5K RMB per monthly as a successful property consultant, he default in payment. Now STPB has work out a plan for him:

jchongking is a Merlion Mascot currently touring Zhuhai and Macau...giving out ..well..what he did best..Keychains

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U are a cheapskate, no money to go ZH & yet ask us to take photos for u to enjoy? Who do u think u are?
Stick to your kopitiams[/QUOTE]

ho lah ho lah, nw yr big name in my signature liao, happy oledi?:D

Re: Cheated
 

Hahaha, after the head kanna lightning strike, now he must wear turban liao. :D

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And I was praying lightning strikes again on the head, albeit the other one... :D:D

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My god... Seriously we can make do without these kind of people, trying to make spoil other people's thread, posting stupid remarks... Sigh...

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Help bros, i have difficulty forgetting her. Everywhere i go reminds me of her, even my home. Die lah.. even at work i will breakdown...:(

Re: Cheated
 

This a phase everyone will go thru.......YOU GOTTA LIVE THRU IT!
Remember, like drugs?????
It'll pass but dun be too impatient......
Just do what you normally do, images and tots of her will appear but it'll get lesser and lesser
Healing takes time....dun be afraid of seeing her, in a way, it's your body trying to purge her out now...let your body do its work

Re: Cheated
 

Bro,

If it is over, then let it be. Find something that you liked to do before hooking up, but never got to do... (I do not mean cheonging hor!!) For me, when I was with my ex, she never allowed me to go out with my friends... So after breaking, it gave me the opportunity to find old friends, and some new ones. If you like the go for drives or like to look at stars or what, you can do so again. Do not take it like a death sentence.. It is a new lease of life!

I have seen many couples who after so many years, break apart... They still make it through mah... It is just that you have to decide... mope around... aiya this reminds me of her and that reminds me of her... living in the past and in a "dream", or take the bull by the balls and just say..."Ok its over and now the new life begins!" "This reminds me of her?? Naaaahhhhh... lucky I am not with her now... imagine if we were married.. then how?" If it is over... it is over.... would you keep the remains of your favourite dog after it has died? And pat it everyday because it was what you did everyday? No.... So the same thing applies...

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Every gal you see, remind you of her or look like her
Everytime you see her number, you feel like calling or text her
You feel like a loser
You dont feel like going out and head home straight afterwork and wondering what went wrong
You think about the good times you spent together with her
Everyday is like a living dead without her

Is this what you are feeling now?

Mind you, she is enjoying every seconds with other guys..your image doesnt register in her mind when she is having a good time...She is properly laughing at you in her heart...

Its time you go out for chill and parteeeeeeee........and know as many gals as possible, go chill with your friends...Partee hard for the sake of knowing new friends and dont breakdown..thats a women job, not us, we are men........once she got wind that you are seeing someone new, she will call you.....this is women..

THANK YOUR LUCKY STAR YOU DIDNT MARRIED HER!!!!

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Bro,

Although I would agree that the ex girlfriend may ba having a ball of a time and or is happy, but then please do not let it be a sore point. Do not let it eat you up. You feel like sh*t because you love her and yet she lost her love for you. But if you have broken off, then be a man lah. Let her go. Images of her enjoying herself and so on will come into your mind, but is it productive? Use negatives to make positives. Let it give you the strength to go on, to make yourself better, to forget her to live life anew and to grow. Not hold you back and keep you down hor...

Wish you luck:)