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That is a very kind and humane way to live.

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if u lend her and she gets caught.. i dont think she will sabo ur name.. even if she does.. u can say there is nth wrong lending a friend money as u do not know she needed it for illegal use...

if she didnt get caught? u can continue to bonk her ! hahahaha

Re: A Relationship With 2 Spinster Sisters
 

lend and request free piak anytime anywhere and as much as u want.. haha..

Re: A Relationship With 2 Spinster Sisters
 

If you google tontine, it says successful bidder gets a large amount. But it did not say have to then return large amount, but have to keep on paying monthly premium (i.e small amount).my guess is she may be a treasurer of a club (at work?) she may have "taken a loan" & have to return "loan" asap. If not, got discovered, then it is cpib case liao

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lend money u can afford to lose.. have the mentality that she isn't going to return & if she does return eventually, then good for u...

have lend $$ to few "friends" who plead so much when wanna borrow, but totally disappear when they promised to return the amt within a certain period..

anyway, the loan from u might give u some gd karma in future.. =)

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bro,

firstly, your "tao hua yun" is super blooming, bonking so many gals at the same time. Congrats!

secondly, if you can afford the loan, and if she is in deep trouble, you can consider, but just treat it as good as gone once you have given to her and its only a bonus if you get it back, which is my experience that i had learn many times before, but still no regrets doing it.

and i dont feel sore over it bcos i feel that if you can help, it means you can afford. :cool:

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Hmm...seems to me nothing in this world is for free. But hey look....its ur money and go with ur gut feelings. If u got money to spare then maybe u should think abt it. After all give her the benefit of the doubt...fool me once shame on u...fool me twice shame on me. We can give u all our opinions but at the end of the day u know her better than we do :)

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On the safe side just prepare a IOU for her to sign stating as a personal Loan.

Re: A Relationship With 2 Spinster Sisters
 

Bro, it may take this $5k to see a person's character. Its cheap for some, not-so-cheap for others, depending on how much value you place on this new found fuckship. Personally, there is only one kind of people I don't lend to - gamblers - no exceptions to that rule. However, I must add that she is really someone rather new to you and has probably exhausted her means to borrow from more acquainted people to have to come to you. With that knowledge, bear in mind repayment may be a long time coming.

Re: A Relationship With 2 Spinster Sisters
 

very true, nuclearkid. never ever loan any money to gambler n the likes, its gone even before you can think of it.

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I agree with Bro Spud Boy. If you can afford to load then by all means do so, but with the mindset that you'll never see the money again. If she does repay you, then it is a bonus. Just make sure your missus doesn't find out about it.
(Eagerly anticipating the next chapter of your riveting story - keep it up :D)

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Yes, release whatever but not the money. Here's why....

Above highlighted in RED are selective quotes from your narrative.
IMHO, hints are everywhere that she is lying.
TS, u definitely have eyes of the Eagle :)

Lastly, look at the title of the narrative..

Eagles - Lyin' eyes with the lyrics You can't hide your lying eyes
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nk1g6jJTsXY

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my views are like the rest...if you can afford the 5k and the 5k wont hurt your finances in anyway..go lend her...who knows she will reccomend better curries to you...:D

But its important never to let anyone knows abt your relationship with her...even your 3 closest companions and your family..no one should know abt the loan except yourself and her..

BUT you must be clear and firm to her its a one-time loan...dont ever let her feel or think you are her atm...this i believe u will be able to handle it better than me. :D

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5k is a big sum for me la... If its like lose change 4 me... I may juz lend out of good will... But if ur wife take note of ur finance, mayb juz tell her u helping ur police friend. Hee She sucked u dried b4 liao... U like that feeling? Lol i personally dun like to be sucked dry. Damn shag...haha not forgetting u are no longer young.:p once in a blue moon ok but TS take care of ur health! I wanna hear more of ur story :)

Just my 2cents

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So after all these opinions...when's the next instalment coming up?? :D