Originally Posted by EtherC (Post 20620419)

Gentlemen, its a game. However you have to understand the rules and there are prices to be paid. If your conscience gets pricked its a good sign; you still retain some semblence of “decency”. You can drink the milk but don’t bring the cow home. Always pay for the milk. Nobody cares what reason you have in wanting to drink outside milk. Frankly the cows don’t give a damn and either do we. Thats your private business and no need to seek justification from anyone. You are adults who are free to choose whatever actions deemed lawful in the society you live in. Separate monogamy from love it’ll help you a lot. Love = Monogamy is an ideal, real life is seldom ideal. If your life goal is not to have a family, don’t feel obligated to marry or have a gf just because the rest do. Stay single and fuck around. If you want a family there is a steeper price to pay. Its natural :you want more u have to pay more. No matter what exercise caution, protect yourself (condoms & testing) and keep it low key. Don’t be led solely by the desire and lose clarity. Cheong solo. Singapore society is unforgiving and can be pretentious. If people discover your deviant ways, they will likely capitalize on it.

Originally Posted by justwanadoit (Post 20633160)

I cheated because I marry young and have no sexual attraction for wife liao but still love her. But hormones make me cheat , especially now I overseas, those ang mo char bo willing to fuck if you nice to them, no need pay, just cook a meal, chill over wine or beer and then fk whole night, no strings attached

Originally Posted by silverpan (Post 20631746)

I cheated to enjoy BBBJ which my wife don't give:p

Originally Posted by BatamBro (Post 20658528)

I have to learn that from you. lol impressive.

Originally Posted by hazyones23 (Post 20592828)

I am married for 6 years now and I'm still visiting home based MLs for the massage and HJ. At the start felt some guilt but after so long, I take it as a nice treat for myself once a month kind of thing.

The baseline is never involve feelings with the ML. Just go there, massage, get a release and that's it. Whatever happens in that room, stays in that room. I don't go home thinking about the ML often or even fantasize "what-if".

I don't hire prostitutes or fuck around with other women. It is always just massage and HJ.

Originally Posted by middleday (Post 20628824)

i do it for the excitement and to get feeling of "I am still attractive".


I have a fuck buddy, we are both married, both in our 40s, she does not have sex with husband, so fuck with me. i have regular sex with wife, but not enough for me, also she complains alot and talks alot when sex, not enjoy it with me.

Our respective spouses do not know we are cheating or have sex outside our marriages.

I just want another pussy to fuck, also this fuck buddy treating me like boyfriend/side dick which i enjoy. its sometimes tiring to lie and make up stories to able to meet up with fuck buddy, also some constant worry will get found out... but this pussy is great...


life is short, dont get caught, enjoy

Originally Posted by middleday (Post 20628824)

i do it for the excitement and to get feeling of "I am still attractive".
I have a fuck buddy, we are both married, both in our 40s, she does not have sex with husband, so fuck with me. i have regular sex with wife, but not enough for me, also she complains alot and talks alot when sex, not enjoy it with me.

Our respective spouses do not know we are cheating or have sex outside our marriages.

I just want another pussy to fuck, also this fuck buddy treating me like boyfriend/side dick which i enjoy. its sometimes tiring to lie and make up stories to able to meet up with fuck buddy, also some constant worry will get found out... but this pussy is great...
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Originally Posted by piichai (Post 20721436)

Yes, Men and women sometimes have fling just to have the feeling : I am still attractive. Some went over the line while some didnt. As long as they have that feeling of being woo again, it is enough for her

So having a wife & FB, do you find ML, FL?

Where the sex is from?
You : Wife + FB
Wife : You
FB : You
FB Husband : ??

The biggest benefiter from this is probably you.
I would love to be in your shoe because still interested to hv sex with wife while many here have lost interest. Yes, I do know abt the nagging and complain part. It just kills all the mood and fun.

Originally Posted by Driftwood (Post 20722859)

About the nagging and complaining part, I imagine could be quite funny? So instead of moaning, she complain about fishmonger cheating her of a few dollars for a fish she buy in the market? :D Haha sorry, I do not encounter this yet so to me, I think quite funny.

Originally Posted by Driftwood (Post 20722859)

So true bro. I think some of my female married friends go out with me not because I am good looking but cause I give them more attention (pay for meals, spend time etc) compared to their hubby. But I do not cross the line cause I do not have the luck yet or maybe there are similar guys waiting in the queue in front me. I am still waiting.