Originally Posted by fallen69angel (Post 13582108)

I remembered I was working as a waiter while waiting for national service. My ex said that I had no future and wanted to split with me. The mum was the initiator during a meal.

Ma: Fallen, I've seen guys like you. Working waiter has no future. You have no ambition. I will stop u from visiting Amy*.

*** Gf is mummy's girl and think it's true and wise words ***

5years later after a few strategic jumps in my career after NS, I became a small manager in a MNC. I ran into them and they invited me back for dinner.

During the dinner, the mum was saying.. "I knew you would make it. That's why Amy should hang out more with you. Tonight if you're tired, just stay over."

Wow.

She's either a prophet, or she's a good actress.

😡😡

Originally Posted by fieryguy80 (Post 13582703)

That's a realistic mom.. she knows that her daughter (at the young age) will choose love over bread. But from her experience, bread is confirmed much required than love. All parents are the same, they wish their children can be with someone of same status or higher.

Indeed there are some cases where they downgraded, but majority is having the same mindset. Once you have become a parent you will understand..

Originally Posted by Kuan Aik Hong (Post 13582877)

Stay single better no headache no need worry about money and career. If have money just go n enjoy. Woman has the nature instinct to get resources out from man .

Originally Posted by senters89 (Post 13471275)

Many people make mistake in life, loving the wrong person is either a mistake or a lesson to learn. Many that are heart broken solve it many ways.

Story 1: i have a friend(J) who fall in love with a China KTV working in Shanghai, she find her different from any other girl who work in this industry. The girl accompany him throughout his 4 day work trip there. They had sex, eat,shopping blah blah. If you guys had been to Shanghai before you will know the standard of living is far more expensive then SG. Even a H&M Uniloq shop cost 2-3times then sg.

When they went shopping around and for meals, the girl will go on dutch with J, she will not ask J to pay for any of her shoppings even when he offer to do so. At the end of the 4th day, is about time for J to return to sg. He handed over RMB5000 to the girl, as tip. The girl keep it and sent him to airport. (J never realise he under paid the girl until me and my china colleague told him, the rate he paid is cheap) the average rate for tabao 1 night in Shanghai high class KTV is RMB 2500-RMB3000 per night.The girl accompany him a full 3 night, it will easily cost you 7-9K RMB.

J had a very hurt r/s before and he alway tell us he will not want to fall in love again. But this time, he fall for her.

When J asked around, we alway advise him not to get hook, afterall she is a 夜场的女人, make she wan a PR in SG. He believe he had nothing to lose, so he just never think too much.

To be continue!

Originally Posted by EtherC (Post 13590288)

Actually for guys , confidence is more important. Part of why wealthy people are attractive is because of the confidence that comes with experiencing success.

Sometimes a bit of positive thinking helps improve your confidence level. If you compare on a macro level, an annual income of just 39200 SGD makes you the top 1% richest in terms of income globally :D.

Just think: how many millions of girls out there are waiting for you to rescue them from poverty.

Originally Posted by EtherC (Post 13590288)

Actually for guys , confidence is more important. Part of why wealthy people are attractive is because of the confidence that comes with experiencing success.

Sometimes a bit of positive thinking helps improve your confidence level. If you compare on a macro level, an annual income of just 39200 SGD makes you the top 1% richest in terms of income globally :D.

Just think: how many millions of girls out there are waiting for you to rescue them from poverty.

Originally Posted by senters89 (Post 13437484)

Brothers, any one got dumped by a girl before because she say you are too poor?

Any story to share?

Originally Posted by demonhunter (Post 13440581)

I got dumped for being loaded ... she couldn't handle the amount of women in my life .

:D

Originally Posted by heartlock (Post 13631312)

I will strongly advise u not think of her.
Even if u marry her she will not stay long ssince she got such mindset. Put in this way, just give blessing to her,luv doesn't mean have to belong to you.
True luv mean willing to go through hard time with you when u down.
You think rich ppls dun have problem~some1 tell me b4 cause he also consider rich can dun work

Originally Posted by senters89 (Post 13437484)

Brothers, any one got dumped by a girl before because she say you are too poor?

Any story to share?