| despicableme |
03-01-2018 12:03 PM |
Re: Bangkok Chiong Scene / Massage / AGoGo / Clubs / Disco
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Originally Posted by rahkshi007
(Post 16865660)
Yes, you hit my objective. Bkk is so easy to find WL/FL to release my load as long as i pay which i did last couple of years. Now i want try something different, i want find someone treats me like a BF when i was there. Usually i only meet up those shortlisted which at least 7/10 in my eye. Regular Thai girl is quite open and willing to know us as a foreigner and most of them will not feel awkward and can have a great conversation with us. To my experience, those who study abroad, speak great english/mandarin has higher chance willing to meet us. But when it come to sex, it is quite hard to achieve even though she did not say she don't like me or no feel on me. You are right, I should not put too much hope in first meet, instead put hope on second meet and maintain r/s. Now i will try to get "definite yes" from those i met before, if no then just put in backup and proceed to other option girl.
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If you use social apps to know girls (I have not used FB before because I dont use FB), almost all are willing to meet at least for a meal or a coffee. For those that insist on just a meal, chances of upping is almost zero. Those that willing to meet at night at pub or club, usually will ask to bring their friends too which I guess is kind of understandable as if not it will be kind of boring to drink or party with just 2 ppl. That gives you a chance albeit a small chance if you are meeting her for the first time. Again, most thai girls are demure in nature and do not want to portray themselves as a slut by sleeping with you the first time they meet. If they TRULY SINCERELY LIKE you, then even more they wont want to sleep with you the first time. I think it is good to maintain a r/s but at the same time maintain a certain kind of distance. Do not let her believe that you are going to be her boyfriend unless you truly want to. Because if she thinks that you really want to be her boyfriend and if she likes you back too, then you are going to fuck her only when you all are officially together. Also, it is not good to play with her feelings. Only maintain r/s with those that is open to fucking you after she gets to know you better after meeting second or third time while not being officially together. You will be able to know quite clearly who is not going to fuck you unless you be her boyfriend, these girls you can either be normal friends or just forget them.
Thai girls seldom go for looks. I know ppl say if you look really handsome, you will get girls anyway. I can tell you from my experience that's not true at all, the prettiest girls I see in a restaurant/pub/club in thailand are usually not with someone handsome. The good looking thai guys know this logic, so they wont go into a club for instance and think they can get girls easily. Foreign guys sometimes dont get this thinking, and misunderstood that if they good looking, they can just walk into a place and thai girls will pour themselves on them. It is not a significant factor. Be generous/gentleman/funny/fun to be around, those are more important factors.
Dont expect thai girls to fall for you just because you are from Singapore. We, as Singaporeans are look upon favourably in thailand and that's to our advantage but not to the extent of being able to fuck decent girls after meeting for the first time. Again, in my experience, those more 'western influenced' thai girls generally are more open to having sex after knowing you for not too long a time. You can find many partying in Khao San. Most dont necessarily go for farang guys anyway, so we Asians still have a good chance. Like you said, you gotta maintain the r/s because you are looking for a 'bkk holiday gf'. And because you are looking for something a little more than sex, it is good that you all can communicate with one another pretty well. I mean after 15mins of fucking, you still gotta talk and understand her if you want to hang out or meet her again right? It is not like a FL, fuck and forget. |
