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Bro, appreciate your constribution but if you can write in paragraphs and not every paragraph you publish a post.............

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Personally think its quite a dangerous game to be in a proper relationship with a working lady. Be it fl, ml, ktv girls. Again it will defer from person to person. there are people who married working ladies and are living quite a happy marriage.

just to share,

used to frequent this fl. intro-ed to my friend to try. become this fl abit sot tio my friend, will text him ask him to go over, dont ask for payment type.

suddenly she mia-ed then found out she got married as i had her personal wechat.

one day, the husband apparently went overseas. the fl jio my friend go to their marital home to bonk. wedding photo right above the headboard of the bedframe while my friend bonking her.

sooooo be careful who you choose to have a relationship with

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There are also risks even when having proper r'ship with normal gals.

Apparently, this ex-fl don't seem to appreciate her husband / what he has done / doing for her!

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Very true. Choosing a girl from nightlife, is like trying to play a video game with the highest possible Difficulty Level. And the problem is, you don't know how high the difficulty level is, it may well be impossible - especially if you find out later that your girl has a gambling habit, or a family background that treats her only as an ATM.

And yet, exceptions exist. And you may actually have come across them during chionging.

My personal tip: If you know your KTV Mummy well, ask about her life story, and the story of the other mummies in the KTV. You will be amazed at how some of the mummies take explicit and deliberate steps to transition away from the life of a KTV girl, and take a huge pay cut in the process. I know quite a number of Mummies through the years - who are now quite old (past 45) and have teenage/grown Singaporean children, and they all have settled into "normal" life in Singapore.

If you can spot a young Mummy who doesn't wear a lot of branded, doesn't do excessive cosmetic surgery and is frequently mistaken to be a KTV girl - then likely she is an ex-KTV girl who probably found love, and is trying to transition into a more "normal" life by being a junior Mummy. Some of them can't adjust to the pay cut and take some clients on the side, but by and large they usually avoid selling pussy to earn money because it puts them in direct competition with the girls they are supposed to "protect"

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Thats very true as well but we can't run away from the fact that we are all 犯贱.

I think this is the hardest part as its not easy to fully know the true history/background of a lady from foreign lands. She may even be knee deep in debt in her hometown while you are none the wiser.

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Oh, if she (or more likely, her family) is up to their eyeballs in debt you will know soon enough. Lol.

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Actually spoken to some of them on why they choose to be FL/ML/KTV girls.

Some of them cite that they/family are in debt and need money, some come over for quick buck easy money, hard to get good paying job in their own country.

ML told me in her first stint in singapore pre-covid, she made some money and went back in the span of 1-2 months. opened some business in china. Due to covid and china's 0 covid policy happy happy lock down, she incurred massive losses on the businesses and is in debt. hence no choice have to come back to sg to earn quick money to clear debts.

ktv girl, played stocks/crypto. loss few hundred thousands rmb and in debt. came to sg, worked a month or two (this was during the "bistro" era). made enough to cover her losses and went back.

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Don’t la bro. 8 out of 10 Thai FL can raw and cip. Why go for a cumdump hole when you can have a fresh one.

Best advice. Stop it

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Will they give u good sex since they are so experienced in bed?

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Language barrier is the hardest but can just use body / hand language???

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To go into serious r'ship with FL or WL, I don't think language is that much a barrrier.

The bigger barrier would be culture, ie, culture shock, attitude / mentality differences !

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I got one encounter is slightly different situation. I met one girl over Michat one night before she went back to Batam. After a few chat she agree to meet me for supper and I brought her back to my affice after we dabao some food. We had sex that night and she said she willing to come SG every month as she said she likes me. Cut the story short she did come to SG every month and in fact every 3 weeks. At first she ask me to delete my Michat account because no point having it since I aldy have girlfriend right and I did deleted. I stay alone and everytime when she come to SG she insisted to stay in hotel and not my house and that's where I started to worry and one night I manage to open her phone and she was still using Michat and she is actually meeting guys there for money. All these while she never ask me to give any money except paying for hotel and food. I told her I saw her phone after she went back to Batam and I even said to her I don't mind she continue to work as I know I cannot afford to support her by giving the same amount of money every month like that but I still love her that's I say like that. After that no more reply from her and blocked me everywhere

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Bro, u are considered lucky already, paying for food & hotel only, for that short a period.

But bad enough that she may not be sleeping with u only at the hotel whenever u are not in the room. But then, thinking further, that's only "cheapskate" $$, although accumulating by the numbers of other men that she meet in the room too.

Many other guys spent much more, such as expensive gifts & fxxk $$ too !

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Yes it’s all about the money.. wake up..

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I am not pro or against it when it comes to a r/s with a FL. But I would make every drop of my sperm counts like trying as many things I could with her i.e. video taking etc!! :D:D:D

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How long before a guy realises his folly and gives up though?

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This one huge question mark bro. Depends person to person.

In my schooling years, always hear stories of girl kena beaten up by the boyfriend until rabak rabak some go hospital all. but the girl still wont leave the guy.

Most of the time when you're in the situation, you can't tell how "toxic" the relationship is. Much like how i only recently realised how "manipulative" i was in my younger days when it came to relationships

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Thx bros for sharing your experiences

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To add my experience here,

This happened last year during CNY period. I was sexually frustrated so I went to browse Dome 1. Saw one that caught my eye, figure was good and face was pretty. Booked her for one shot and went down. Surprisingly she looked better than in picture and very chatty. Our sexual chemistry was crazy good. I didn't cum because i usually take awhile and she was tired since im her last customer of the day.

So the next day i went for two shots and suddenly she just took off the condom and went in raw while riding. Being the last customer again she asked me to spend the night with her which i did. Endless fucking and when morning came, we were both so tired but fun. Kena KC-ed at this point liao. Went to exchange LINE and talked daily. I almost went everyday after that day, spend the night with her, even sent her to the airport LOL!

She RTC back and worked as a bar girl. I went to visit her monthly and it was just sex and sex. She was kind, cooked for me daily and even wash my clothes. Life was simple and fun. We became a couple after a few months and she quit her job. But of course that was where the problems come. She never asked me for money but she will always drink with her friends and get piss drunk and started spam calling me in the middle of the night. She gets very insecure and paranoid if i don't reply her quickly as she will think im eating out.

Long story short it was a messy breakup as we were arguing every week and she blocked me when she is angry at me and I have to beg for her to unblock me. As many bros mentioned "you can take her out of the bar but can you take the bar out of her?" For me, I tried but she's just too broken for me to fix. And it ended up affecting my mental health as well. It was fun while it lasted but the cons definitely outweighed the pros.

Sharing this for the bros out there, perhaps you will have better luck than me. But just be careful and think it through. Don't pm and ask for contact i will not give to protect her identity.

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My sifu teach me

(1) easier to convert a 良家妇女 to a whore and enjoy than

(2) convert a whore to 良家妇女.

Confirm give you lots of headache.

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They come here work for money high chance you gonna heart ache. My friend divorce cause of thai chick now have to pay both side aiya forget it la. Their objectives here is simple money. If got so call relationship just enjoy the sex process dont go into marriage, think twice... now my friend regret say he feel he doubt the thai gf will ever take care of him when he got no money lol... now he need to take care her mother father sister brother like he atm machine. Wahahaha.

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Many Thai milfs (late 20-mid 30s) I come across here on the verge of divorce/separation. Regardless of the industry they working in.

It’s important how you meet them and what you know about them, their family etc before going into the relationship for long term. Hits and misses. Know what you are getting yourself into before committing.

If you are like me, only like Thai, better to go Thailand to hunt. From my knowledge, most of them met their husbands in Thailand/ through friend and eventually get married. The rest is up to how you want to manage the relationship. Some of these ladies share with me their story but it’s one sided. Mostly say about the guys issues, so take it with a pinch of salt.

Can always try date first but don’t be stupid to spend all your money on it. Within your means.

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I experience from ml or ktv or hangflower girl some will say "been very long since have raw with someone" some will say "been very long since I have sex with someone" got one chinese ml even say" last time I swallow cum was my ex husband" tbh I take all this with a pinch of salt. I didn't even ask her swallow my cum... I just hug her and smile.

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Thx bros for sharing, seems like better to just enjoy while it lasts instead of hoping for a lasting relationship.

Commercial sex cannot compare with sex with some KC involved.

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Met FL here. According to her it was her first tour doing FL but did work in the bar many times. She said she doesn't go back with customers if work in the bar. The first year I know her, she quite direct and tell me that she will work in the bar. Most of the time while she work, she will text me. Yes. At night, we would chat some random stuff and she told me she's just accompany random people drinking. If her bar tour is 1 month, maybe 2 weeks she will stop and pay fine because she will say she don't like the job. Eventually the following year she said have contact in Cambodia to do some translation job with Chinese people. I skeptical about this but there was one time she took picture of her office which she shouldn't. Her phone is locked and using company phone to communicate during working hours. Anyway, long story short she never ask me for money, she's a little crazy but I guess can say loyal? In reality I'm truly the toxic one because I'm stuck in a shitty sexless marriage with a local. She know about it and couple of time she did want to break it off but would come back to me. I don't know where my life direction going either. 🫠

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This here comment deserve more attention.

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Should act ignorance, n u hv a good time

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Just sharing my experience here.


I was fucking this Viet GL lady almost every week in 2023. Petite girl, 1.47m girl with natural C cups. Gave me an excellent BBBJ everytime, and I Probably bang her about 30+ times over the year.


I liked her a lot, treated her as a good friend and my fav WL. Never tipped her or asked for raw during her time in SG, but always had a good time with her. After we fuck will hug and talk cock with her until time is up


Suddenly at the start of this year she text me say going to cut card next week. Apparently is due to family matters + she quarrel with boss, so she fed up and decided to leave.

I brought her out for a few times on her last week in SG. She told me she only go out with me and not other customer, and I do believe her, as I could met her almost everyday after work


During her last week, she told me she really liked me, and i really kena KC i think. Was already heart pain from losing a friend, but it really hits different when the a girl you like tells u she likes you.

After she went back to VN, we text and call frequently, and she ask me come to vist.


Last night I landed in VN, and today she brought me around. Just raw and creampie her for the first time today lol. Her pussy feels different now that there is no lube.


So far I am happy with her. Relationship is geniune, with no money involved. She has never asked me for a cent, and in fact even rejected my offers to wire her money. Even now that I am in VN, she insists on paying for everything lol. But I am not a cheebye, so I do give her small hongbaos that cover the cost of what she spends with me.


I really do like her a lot, she makes me happy, and is really wife material. However, I still don't really see a long term successful relationship here. She can't move to SG as she is ex-WL, and i don't have enough leave to come VN frequently.

Im just gonna roll with this and be happy while it lasts.

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just to share, period.

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Hi bro, sorry to hear the sexless marriage. Is it true that marry local girl will need to live like monk after married?

In that case all bros should marry viet, thai, china is it better? Hope to hear tips from senior bros. As sexless marriage is my nightmare.