Re: Tired of paid sex
 

You aren't the only man who feels or have felt this way. I believe you have grown in maturity to reach a stage in life where you realize the emptiness and desire something more meaningful.

Some men are correct to say that it's time to "settle down" or find a girlfriend. They are quite right but a wife or a girlfriend is also not all smooth sailing. In many cases, when a woman becomes a mother to your children, she tends to want lesser sex, hence you see many men here who are also unhappy with their married sex lives. The happiest men appear to be those who have girlfriends, the sexually bold ones.

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Well said. It's mostly very true.

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I guess TS is more in touch with his feminine side. Girls are usually less likely to separate the physical act and the emotional ones.

Nothing wrong with that of cos. So if you have a real physical need, go for it. The "empty" feeling could be the guilt playing a part. So if that empty feeling outweighs the need for physical release, then dun go. Use your hands.

If you are willing to pay the ultimate price for both, then settle down lor.

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Its time to try something new, be a GAY!

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Well said bro! TS no use whining since you know yourself best. If you want best of everything? Haha there is no such thingy.

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how come you guys keep thinking that i want free sex?
MONEY to me is not an issue. its not money problem now.
if money can buy that kind of feel, i will gladly pay. Just put a price tag and a guarantee money return for unsatisfied service

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because sex without any feelings is just not satisfying enough becomes like quick shower which only satisfies yr most basic pyhsiological need in maslow theory need not any emotions....

but sex with someone special is like dipping yrself in scented bathub and having a long luxurious bath makes u enjoy the moment as well satisfying yr physiological need and higher level needs like love and belonging.

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bro TS... i guess it's the 'feeling' that you are after... maybe you shoud try an escort with that 'special' so that can go like on a 'date like' and end up the night with the 'exercise' since money may not be an issue for you?
For me, the feeling of paid sex became numb after more than a year and now it's a different game my desire takes me to... i agree with you that it's not always about the money... :D

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Never heard of money cannot buy love? But at geylang money can buy sex. Maybe you should upgrade to actresses that FL part time? Since you want them to act GFE to you all the time. Grow up and face facts.

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Hey man.

I totally understand how that feels cos I even had an experience where I get it up and was wondering if I had some physical problem but my subsequent gf let me understand I just had a psychological barrier and I was fine .

We have too many choices nowadays so sex isn't everything .

Nowadays I just spend my time improving myself and flirting with girls and making new friends to improve my social life. I sometimes bed the girls I meet FL or not and have been enjoying it

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what is this website for? sorry my chinese not very good

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Sugar baby!

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But at least it ease your loniness for the time being & something to look forward to on your next leave . Life gonna have a meaning right ? But just remember don't be naive & don't fall in love with them , gals ,no matter how sweet & gentle they are to you coz they're public property . Change your partner on every different trip so there won't be any chances of attachment feeling .Just a temporary paid for girlfriend on your lonesome free time .

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There's many sugarbaby lookin for sugardaddy, maybe u can try one since $$$ is not a problem to u:confused: :D