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Well Mas melvin244

Here's a positive story that marrying an S.E.A lady can have a sucess story.

Do remember to keep up posted if ever your life story too becomes sucessful

And Pak P sincerely do hope it does :)

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U make a good one and share here lor.

Again, depends on where you seek your ADVI_E online. In SBF, you'll get bad ones becoz any supporter for good ones will likely be frown upon and be zapped ;)

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Just go hcm and there are about 5 million to choose...Check out my hcm thread in my signature...:)

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u sure he brought his wife and not introed to him by his friend?

all i can say is that from my humble experiences, you can see my posts,as i have friends who are married with vietnam wives, success are much higher if you know or someone know who you are marrying. at least do a basic but trustable background check. marriage is such a big issue, you cant leave it to chance of 50 /50. there are many bro here who have vietnam wives, why the ts dun asked them via email or pm for intro?

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hcm girls are starting to be materialistic. i rather u go to dalat.

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hahaha...you are right...but alot working and doing biz are not local...alot are from Nha Trang, Dalat, etc...:)

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no matter where you know yr viet wife, you have to make efforts to understand her and also let her feel loved. spend time with her , communicate with her and explain to her how things operate in singapore. things in singapore are very much different compared to vietnam. ignorance abt singapore way of life often lead to conflicts.

i know of a singapore man with viet wife, and he consistently lie to his wife. he told his wife he pay a lot of tax, but don't know why his wife cannot get PR. he has a lot of money in bank, but he cannot afford most things. this singapore chap , having lie a great deal to his wife, is so afraid that his wife will find out that he lies that he ask his mother to follow his wife everywhere and prevents his wife from interacting with others. with such attitude n tactic, how will his wife feel secure n loved?

marriage is 2 way traffic, needs a lot of patience, love n care. :D

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This statement has Pak P's stamp of approval

Very well put Mas SingViet

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Bro SingViet has a thread on "Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner"...in this thread...plenty of case studies...can take it as pleasure reading...:)

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Will u marry one while you love another? :rolleyes:

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Reminds Pak P of the song Torn between two lovers by Charlene

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I don't believe in all this "love" crap. :rolleyes: Sexual attraction is not "love". It's "lust".

The girl I marry would have to be my best friend above all else.

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i heard tat vietnam wife can cook well....:)

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Love is overhyped. as for your case, try to marry the one you love, if cannot then end that love and marry another.
Love is not the pre-requsite for marriage and happiness. it is a bonus good to have it earlier. Many of ourforefathers ends up loving the wives that they were arranged to married.

Anyway for men, Lust or the desire to own one dream gals overwhelm 95% over the 5% of real love.

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Marriage is no longer on sg ppl minds now they prefer a trial first before getting it done legally . The divorce rate is getting higher every year . Would you marry someone who could not get u sexually satisfied ??