Originally Posted by Xgenre (Post 21695660)

Did you try the Qigong master who is advertising in the forum? Given that she is an official advertiser, I can recommend you try. No sexual services. I don't think she's 33 as she says but given that there are no sexual services, her looks and age doesn't matter.

Go with an open mind. She will say until your health is really poor. Really 90 minutes of yak yak yak. Makes you wonder if you are about to drop dead anytime. All in the hope you will be her regular customer. But if her treatment really works for you over time, then it will be good time and money invested. Her massage is good. Real kung-fu. I just cannot stand her style of talking

Originally Posted by iampig (Post 21684791)

I found the post in the reddit quite useful : https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comment...made_sex_with/

To quote from it :

So here's what I did to fix this problem:
1.
I stopped masturbating with my hand. It just isn't the right sensation, and in my opinion it's just a totally lazy way to get off. When I used to masturbate, I would just sit in my computer chair and jerk my hand up and down at a pace that I could NEVER match with actual bodily thrusts during sex. Sex is far more physically engaging. You have to hold yourself up. You have to thrust your hips. I wanted to simulate actual sex without having to worry about anxiety issues that may come with a girl in the room, so what I did was buy a Fleshlight. I made sure to NEVER hold the Fleshlight in my hand and move it over my penis like I used to do with my hand while masturbating. Instead, I stuck it between my boxspring and mattress so that it remained stationary, and fucked it like I would have to fuck a girl. I started using the Fleshlight without a condom, but as my erection strength improved I began to use condoms every time.

2.
I stopped watching porn entirely. Simply put, if you're used to threesomes and double anal with porn stars, plain old missionary sex with a "normal" girl probably isn't going to be all that stimulating. The only visual stimulation that I allowed myself during my sessions with the Fleshlight were PICTURES OF GIRLS THAT I HAD ALREADY HOOKED UP WITH or GIRLS THAT I HAD A LEGITIMATE CHANCE OF HOOKING UP WITH. I wanted to make an effort to stop going to a mental fantasy land every time I got off, because I wouldn't be able to go there during real sex. Realistic mental and visual stimulation only.

3.
I started doing Kegel exercises. They work and I swear by them. The problem that a lot of people have with Kegels is finding a routine and sticking with it. What I did was buy a mobile app called Prostate Aerobics ($2.99). I set two alarms per day and did them 6 days per week (Sunday off). I started at level 1 and let it automatically bump me up to level 9 over the course of ~6 weeks. After I had done level 9 twice a day for a week or so, I started setting 3 alarms per day (still with one off day per week). It starts out easy but actually gets pretty difficult. One session of level 9 is over 10 minutes long. My erections got stronger and I was able to maintain them much easier. Morning wood was stronger than ever. Random boners during the day came back. I seriously cannot recommend Kegels enough.

Originally Posted by Xgenre (Post 21688558)

What's your height and weight? Better go see a doctor to do a proper check up. Is your wife pretty? Sometimes we marry nice ladies whom we are not sexually attractive to. Don't masterbate so often because your wife will never be as tight as your five fingers.

Come, let me help you distress with a suitable song. Just have a laugh and slowly solve the problem.

https://youtu.be/0qOHckga2dA

Originally Posted by skyver86 (Post 21698088)

Thanks for sharing bro. i will try out the kegel exercise as suggested. any idea how long it would be to see any effect of this exercise ?

Originally Posted by iampig (Post 21698092)

Other than the kegel exericse, there are many different factors at play like the "dont use hand to masturabate" or the "don't masturabate to fetish", so it is hard to pinpoint which factors affect the most.

Originally Posted by skyver86 (Post 21698082)

possible to share with me the link for the Qigong master please ? would like to try every means to have good sex life moving on.

Originally Posted by Punpipi69 (Post 21691168)

Erm, me too having some issues. Not taking any pills, just sometimes need some stimulation to feel shiok again and continue the course.

Think alot of bros here actually provided good suggestion- stop dfk and exercise!
but no dfk need to find lobang liao. i hear my wallet crying :(

Originally Posted by Xgenre (Post 21698295)

https://www.samsforum.com/showthread...063&highlight=

Good luck and speedy recovery. Both you and your wife are bui bui? Good to measure your blood pressure, cholesterol and blood sugar level.

Some of us will want to know... when you pee, you can see your kuku jiao or not? :D:p

Originally Posted by skyver86 (Post 21700112)

sorry bro, what is dfk ?

Originally Posted by Punpipi69 (Post 21701942)

Typo, should be dfk (da fei kei) or dfj (da fei ji), means masturbate lo

Originally Posted by brucelim1976 (Post 21700901)

Dude when you masterbating please stand up and not laying on the bed .. because when you fuck your wife you stand up or half knee and that’s use a lot of leg energy and initially bring all energy down and affect your cock stand.

Originally Posted by peeboy75 (Post 21703214)

Don't anyhow use acronym la... Everyone knows dfk is deep French kissing.. How the fuck did it turn to masturbation...