Originally Posted by Willamshakspear (Post 22267407)

Thanks for your response Bro Sbwow.

There is nothing to be speechless about leaving legacy behind. If it had not been our ancestors, whom lived in jungles & caves, belittled, bullied but courageous enough to put at end with countless sacrifices to it, to strive for a better & more uplifting equal society to lift up ALL lives beyond barbaric jungle laws where MIGHT is law, NONE of us would be alive today to see progress that they could not even begin to imagine. WE today owe them a debt of honor.

Each Human born does have the right to be happy, however, is it better to be happy alone & short term at expense of others thru deceit, lies, & the power of money dominance to sway those in desperate need, or to be happy with others thru honesty & sincere efforts that will last for LONG term TOGETHER & be remembered for eternity with good will, & FOLLOWED by generations thru an ancestor's mental strength & discipline to give each & all a better life?

The gift of life is precious & is a POWER that comes with responsibilities to those we love, whom love us or attempted to love us as best as they could. None is perfect.

With the gift of life comes too the gift of FREE WILL. We Humanity are not robots, but sentient & thinking beings, with the gift of intelligence, to progress & evolve.

NO ONE, no prince or principalities, has the right to TAKE away that right of FREE WILL, least of all the insignificant nobody me. I can only show one the CONSEQUENCES, if FREE WILL is wrongly used & lives, not just oneself, but others around one, are impacted...so choose wisely...

All the best.:o

Originally Posted by tanweiliang01 (Post 22266909)

bro, thanks for sharing this. pretty extreme case hugh grant choosing his 1 off fling vs elizabeth hurley. wild stuff

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior (Post 22268728)

Seems like a juicy article

https://sg.yahoo.com/style/lifestyle...214602568.html

Originally Posted by ps7432 (Post 22271747)

Seems like what we all know. But then again why did not anyone mention about wanting a younger and hotter looking girlfriend?

Originally Posted by Bbtt332023 (Post 22336238)

Maybe because that's not the most common reason men cheat. At least not to the group that takes this seriously. Those answering these questions takes their relationship and cheating quite seriously, therefore they are able to explain and justify their actions. I suspect these people are emotionally committed to their cheating actions, compared to those that look for younger hotter girls whose reasons are purely physical.

Some of the justifications do resonate with me. And I do feel the pang of guilt for cheating. I hope to stop one day without my partner ever finding out, but that days isn't soon, at least not while my self worth is at its lowest

Originally Posted by ps7432 (Post 22339761)

Well said. But i can never do it if the other party is not attractive. By right, an affair shpuld never be taken seriously and we know there is always an end to it.

Originally Posted by Bbtt332023 (Post 22341752)

Well that's the thing. Attractiveness can be subjective. Some people who go chiong, the WL they go with not even prettier than their wives. But it's the willingness to pleasure that attracts them. Or being able to talk without being subjected to judgement or prejudice. Maybe at home they can't simply say stuff, need to walk around eggshells with their wives.

Originally Posted by drinkdrankdrunk (Post 22437738)

Sometimes it's not that we want to cheat, it's that the other half gives us too many rules

Originally Posted by larue (Post 22439411)

Excuses, like all the men without the balls to seek a divorce but trying to blame their wives for all their unhappiness.
Wives whom they all chose to marry.

Blame the wife, blame the in laws, blame the women's charter, blame the PAP.

Want to cheat, just cheat. Feel bad, then don't cheat

Originally Posted by gig4 (Post 22445192)

Sometimes it's not that we want to cheat, it's the pressure of life plus the fact that the other half doesn't understand