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Ahem .......
I m not stalking you, but ...... （Cough! cough!）

U know what I mean hor! Before I start singing this at your thread

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_YV3InyFoo&sns=em

Someone taking a long vacation

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Another insomnia night.

My thought drifted back to all the times we spend together. We had out little arguments, but nothing last more than a day. We are so sure that our love will burn forever. I pull out her photo and gazed deeply. There still traces of heartache.

Maybe it was the double Espressor I had after dinner. The body is tired, but the brain is still running. But what I wish to say is It is difficult to continue the story ....

So if without much objection, I would like to fictionalize the ending and end this ASAP.

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Bro take ur time and i believe most of us would like a real life experience as far as possible but if u really can't continue it anymore u can fictionalize it but pls do indicate to let us know.
I camp in ur chalet to show my support even if I just lost Mj (damn!!).... anyone can spare me beer and food lol

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Much as I would love to read e non-fictional ending. I do understand too e difficulties on penning down things close to ur heart. Which ever way it goes, u hv the kitty's support!

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I object your honour! I feel u man... but bro please don't fictionalize the ending. the reason that make your story so special is because it is real and please keep it true till the end. honestly, up to this stage I think no one can still guess what's the reason for the break-up and that makes it so captivating until all bros in SBF clicks on your stories for update everyday.

how bout bro take a short hiatus but don't take a long vacation like meow ya haha. ;)

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Fiction or not I still support! Continue only when you are ready bro.

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I agree bro. You came a long way and you do not want to give up right? :)

I know the pain it comes when penning it down but like what the bros says, nothing beats a true story no matter how it turns out. Go on bro. You have my support and pen.

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Would prefer a true ending too, if possible...

Anyway, I respect your decision.

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camping for more:)

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wanting to listen on

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Who so ever disapprove of this particular post, please PM me. I would like to know how this offended you. You did not put down the reason and your name.

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Nothing much happen for the next few months. I take charge of looking after May medical appointment and out door activities. We rented a wheel chair from the hospital.

Every week end we will go out together and spend quality time together. As I mention earlier out relationship grew. May was not willing to wear the engagement ring when she goes out, since she still has mobility problem. So she will put it in a necklace and wears it under her conservative clothing. Once we were frantically searching for the ring that we though she has misplace when we were outside, only to remember later it was on her necklace.

She shared many of her past with me, and so did I. We decided that honestly of our past is good for the relationship (I left out many of my sexual encounters). We understand and acknowledge our past has made us whom we are today, that we are currently so attracted to.

I persuade May to spend he weekends at my house. Her aunt did not disapprove of this, especially, we Re set to get married next year. We tone down on the sex parts, due to her cast as well as we want to explore more after marriage. Most of the time, we satisfy each other tru oral or hand job.

Her fractured leg was healing nicely. Her cast was removed after nearly 10 weeks. The doctor was pleased with the healing.

ICA has informed us that our application has been approved. But May would have to surrender her student visa. She also would have to return home and for me to apply for a standard social visit pass. I will be able to apply for a long term dependent pass after the marriage.

We make plan to go for a short trip in HK. After that she will return toner home and get ready for marriage. I will return to Singapore after the short trip and apply for May social visit pass.

I pre-made the air ticket and hotel arrangement. We also make plans to go to HK Disneyland, and some of the remote island. May has quite a few many friends in Hong Kong. This will be what we refer as our pre honeymoon. Will be a 5D4N vacation.

Out of the 4 night stay in Eaton Hotel, 3 nite is free from my Asia-Miles point redemption. So we practically only paid for the air ticket.

May returns to school to make up for lesson during her MEdical Leave, but she will not be able to complete her course. But one good thing is that, if I can apply for her PR soon, her school fees will be much lesser. And her paper works to teach in the Academy will be much reduced.

We planned everything nicely. We agreed that if she is not able to conceive naturally after 2 years after marriage, we will go look for fertility clinic. We love kids, and so s the pressure from our parents. We also decided that we will ROM first than decide on the traditional Chinese ceremony later.

We were very happy with things so far.

Unker..
Please continue ..
Gosh.. I dunno when n how would this end..

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Not that soon i hope..... if not we will be short of one story to follow. :(

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Please don't fictionalize the ending bro. All of us followed your story cos' it is real and we can, I believe, relate to it as this could happened to some of us in a similar scenario.

I would rather you don't pen down the real ending if you don't want to and leave it as a future lead on as and when you are ready to end it. Fictionalize it will be a huge let down and anti climax !... :)

Yah..
But it also help him to move on la.. aiyoo..

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Telling the story should start the receovery and moving on
But part of me deep down, is still unwilling to let go, that's the problem.

I will try to relate to the story as truthful and as much as possible. But till this date, some things happen in that particular manner, is till mysterious. I do not want to write the wrong thing that will lead to readers mis-interpreting the event.

Unker..
Please do let go..
I know its hard for u to do that..
But u should.

Gosh.
I really cannot imagine what happened when she left u.
Hopefully its not on ur wedding day..

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Laugh Out Loud
It is not that bad lah, but just want a small part of what we used to share.

No pop corn or coke allow here

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what had happened, you can't turn back the clock
but if you have someone with you now, do appreciate and treasure her

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Let me have a guess here...don't tell me is something to do with her either parent's business that she was forced to leave u and enter into a commercial marriage to expand the family business?

Still I support ur story be it true or fiction (but I still prefer a true account)

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Good guess. That would be almost be the fictional ending.
But no, it's not what that happens.

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It's so sad to see 2 people in love but can't get together. Fate had brought them together, but destiny pulls them apart.
From what I see, if it's due to parental rejection it could only be May's father which is very unlikely.
Suddenly I thought of endings that I see in dramas and movies
1) The girl sick then don't tell the guy and left.
2) Misunderstandings
3) Loss of memory
4) Competitors
Did I kena any?:D

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Just to let you know I am still stalking you :D

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Following the story

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Understand how u feel bro been in that situation. Don't whether she took any part of u with her. But she confirm left something in u which is why the feeling is lingering in the memories. Take yOur and recall don't want it to become fictionalise.

Shall wait for it hot hot fresh out of oven haha

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Use a bazooka and shoot u to North Pole.
U can stalk there
Laugh Out Loud :D

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No no no! No oven!
I not baking cake.

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he gave a clear hint that he did not wear condoms that has impact pn what happened later.

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Zhen is pregnant?